Is it placed in a man's DNA to pick up the phone six months or later and say what's up as if we just talked yesterday? Majority of the time, we ended our so-called relationships for a reason, therefore most forms of communication were cut off. This six month follow up phone call (text message, facebook message, whatever) tends to be unnessary and very pointless. The conversation is mostly an awkward recap of what life has been like since you last spoke. For example, are you still in school? Are you still working at that one place? There might even be a story about how he saw or spoke to your friend and decided to give you a call...And then you wait for him to suggest a meeting of some sort...lunch? drinks? his place? WHY do guys insist on interupting our lives to fill this urge in their head that is telling them to make contact? Believe me, you can skip this check point in life's path, I'll be fine. Seriously, just continue to facebook stalk me like you already have been. That should provide you with some updates as well as save face when you realize that I no longer care if my called ID flashes your name.

Sidebar...If you agree to the meeting and contemplate a reunion, please take the time to think about why you broke up or stopped talking in the first place. If the problem isn't fixed, don't waste your time! Continue to feel single, sexy, and free of drama until a better opportunity presents itself...like Dwayne Wade on bended knee while "So Beautiful" by Musiq plays in the background, he opens the ring box and a single tear rolls down his cheek as he professes his love and desire for you to always be in his life as his wife...but that's just my opinion :) --KscaY